Not your average New Years Resolution
Hey there Lovlies,
It's the time of year again where everyone starts posting all of their New Years Resolutions, and yes when I first started blogging it was my very first post that I wrote and at the time I loved it, and I very much believed that I would achieve everything on my list. I thought they were all very achievable and they probably are but I just didn't try very hard or something!
But this year instead of a list of things that are potentially not achievable I'm aiming for one thing, and one thing alone and that is Self-Love ; to have regard for ones own well being and happiness. Thats googles definition for it anyway. And the sad thing I just discovered searching for that defitintion is that Self love is not in the top 6 options that google gives you. I think it should be in all of our top 6 to have positive self- love , self- esteem , self- confidence , self- Image , Self- control and to be self- Contained.
I have been known to have a short fuse when it comes to being angry, I'm not by any means a violent person but my emotions are always very readable within my actions. Thats where self- control comes in. In order for me to be a better me, I need to not flip out there and then ( chances are I have completely over reacted 90% of the time) take a moment and process the situation and then react accordingly.
This is the year where I try to avoid all things that could have a negative effect on my confidence, my worth , and my image. Try to learn to love myself for who I am and not for who I want to be... but by all means strive to improve and be better version of your self but never try to be someone or something that you are not that's when your self- esteem gets a little low. Try to remember that If you want to do something, you can do it and yes you are good enough to it.
There's a lot of pressure to look a certain way, that comes from social media and those bloody glossy magazines, but now there are now models and actors and actresses admititng that they are very much airbrushed in that article they are featured in. I've always known that no-one looks the way they look in that magazine but it's hard not think "but why doesn't my hair look like that" "why can't I be that slim" "why isn't my skin THAT flawless" And It's not easy to not think like that but that is my goal for 2018. I will love the way that I look in that really fitted dress that I Love but don't wear because it shows my odd shape, I will post that selfie where I love my hair and makeup but my nose looks funny shape and I will be proud of everything that I do, weather that be a blog post that I write or a good day at work. I won't let people put me down with their words and those people that have their negative thoughts and opinions I Will be better than them, I am good enough.
Thanks for reading and Have a bloody amazing 2018!!!
What is your main New Years Resolution for 2018?
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